hi longboarder
from your description, it sounds like you have found an ideal companion in crissy. i can see why it is difficult to let her go. the struggle is the physical part of the relationship. without the fireworks, this keeps crissy from being "the one". while you may find others who meet your physical needs, they are unable to adequately match crissy's emotional, mental and spiritual temperment which you have grown so fond of. you admit, you are not the most sexually active man, but how important is this to you in the relationship when it comes to having the rest of crissy's qualities in your life when you are looking at long term companionship compared to having the fire works and not having those qualities in a woman?

welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome