I know mine was Moma's baby. And I realize he has some major medical problems. But he just doesn't seem to understand that I can't heel him with cookies and milk.

He is going to have to learn to take care of himself, watch what he eats, get some physical exercise. He is going to have to listen to his body, learn the enitial signs of trouble, question symptoms, medications, etc.

Spending all his time snoring on the sofa does not take care of anything.