thanks Direction and thanks A...b...tech. I will look at September's post. ABtech thanks for your insight. It makes a lot of sense to me.Where you said he may think I'll find someone who makes more money etc. that rings true. Because I found a 'faith' 23 years ago and that was a turning point where he tightened his grip.I had found the Creator(that's my way to express it.I don't want to mention my religion) who is Superior. Without him acknowledging it he has been envious. He cant acknowledge that because he is a staunch evolutionist,(I feel that is his excuse for when he acts unloving or uncaring).Survival of the fittest. I'd have to have a lobotamy to believe evolution. I have my own personal evidence for my beliefs.
OK well I'm not saying any of this to overlook what anyone else had said but I think it factors into the whole lack of respect. Because I don't respect his beliefs and he doesn't respect mine. Plus he uses his beliefs to excuse his behaviour. ....respect to you both for your replies....Jjulia