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Originally Posted by stopdog
I do, however, fear the woman may be trying to change it against my will with that right brain thing. Some of what I have read leads me to believe they try doing it at clients regardless of the client telling them they do not want it.
I had an odd conversation with the first one once where she said she used to try to be kinder and I told her how much better it was now that she had stopped trying it and she was taken aback. The problem is, I think she is trying it again -and it is awful for me to have them do empathy at me.
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Whether or not she or you discuss it, I am confident that she cannot successfully make that happen without you, internally, deciding to dismantle Fort Knox. I don't think that right brain thing would work on someone who actively defends against something they consider so distasteful (empathy, etc.) I have no doubt that you can spot it a mile away and you will never be taken by surprise.