anyone of us can be upset and stressed out enough to use words that we would not ordinarily use. i've seen a lot of posts in here that were filled with words that were very, very harsh.

i believe in giving a poster a room to say what comes out when they are feeling it, as long as it isn't directed towards a poster here. the poster was using a word that is very emotional and at that moment that is how she felt.

i vent here as do others......it is my impression that this is a support forum. judging someone who is obviously in pain doesn't seem very helpful.....