if you have thoughts of having sex with minors then you are a pedophile apparently. doesn't matter that you may never have acted on your desires, doesn't matter that you hate yourself for having those desires, doesn't matter that you wish you didn't have those desires. Doesn't matter that pedophilia is a DSM mental disorder... people suffering from pedophilia (at the level of DESIRE and not action) simply aren't allowed to post to this site.