Thanks for your responses, EM and MM. It would make sense that sexual libido would be affected by depression. It's just another thing, though, to make us feel guilty about how our BP affects our partner. Somebody posted a thread not too long ago about whether it's better to just remain single, or not. Too much time spent in my head means I am not as "present" in my relationships, as I should be, and when I am feeling nothing, I have to fake "normal" responses with the people I care about. I know, I'm preaching to the choir. Lol...