So I guess I did something stupid.

I wrote an ex-T, what she meant in our last session when she gave me a referrel ( I was giving one, as she was going on a vacation and I was quite a mess ) and said:

" This will be an opportunity to see how you affect other people"

" Learn how to write"
( I didn´t want to put my feelings down on paper between sessions and she told me it was ok before, not to do so)

" It´s not realistic that you become xxx , you know that don´t you?
"( something careerwise, that she had told me was perfectly fine before)

" Take care of your boyfriend" ( Didn´t say feel better to me ect. when we said goodbye )

I´m I overreacting and stupid for asking her in an e-mail ?

I just can´t stop thinking about it and it was at the end of our last session.

Just feel like she must have been faking it, while I was her client and I felt overwhelmed by her remarks.