I agree with divine1966 and DarknessIsMyFriend on this point. In my experience, and strange at this will sound, you can be deeply compatible with someone of certain levels but still a relationship might not work out. If you incompatible in another key area then that can be a big problem. I might be completely wrong, it's very hard to know at a distance from a reading just few forum posts, but my feeling is that your goals are too different and you don't fully understand what motivates one another, simply because you are different. It's hards to know exactly how much a couple need to have in common for a relationship to work, I've spend a lot of time pondering that question myself. But I'm leaning towards thinking that their future aspirations and goals should be compatible.