That's a really good idea meander....planing some "date" nights or days, whichever the case may be could be a great way of working around this issue.

Sometimes even planning little projects around the house together like, cleaning out the closets and dressers, painting or decorating a room, washing windows, whatever you can find to expend some energy together. Then, plan on some good "me" time.....both of you doing something for yourselves alone....taking a nap, reading, computing, watching a movie, taking a walk to be alone with your thoughts. Just some ideas. I know it's hard to plan your moods LOL....but sometimes having something to look forward to can elevate your mood

Hugsss
J