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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
You don't have to say, but if it was, say, pleasuring yourself while thinking of here, there's nothing wrong with that either. I know you have religious concerns, so you probably feel differently about it. I've certainly done that while thinking of my marriage counselor.
If it's something else, then as long as you weren't, say, breaking the law (like breaking into your T's house or something), I think you're OK.
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you say such comforting, healing things. I feel shame and guilt because my sexual feelings tend to surface more when there's been a breakdown or impasse. it feels oddly sadistic and I have no idea how to discuss it in session or how discussing it would be useful to me.