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Originally Posted by CalmingOcean
Okay that all makes good sense thank you. I suppose I was just doubting it because surely if her kid parts were coming out crying for mama her husband should of known something was up... But I never thought of what you said- it's after she reached a point where her system no longer works that triggered the breakdown 'a few years back' and now everyone is popping out. But.... Can you really 'call up' alters? Do you reach a point in treatment that that becomes a possibility? I know my kid parts pop out but I didn't think I could be like- 'okay little Ocean, it's go time...'
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Hey CO...
I really don't call up alters because we are all equal....no one really rules the other...we're like a collective. We can request an other to step up...it's up to them....so a 'No" is not like an uncommon thing.
It's so wild that situations and circumstances triggers others to react, much like coping and life skills as required in the present.
Even coming on here is a trigger for me to be.
We switch all day long, moment to moment, minute to minute, lifetime to lifetime.
My story is I've been physically, emotionally, mentally screwed with for 18 years....I shouldn't be happening...anyways, it's possible.
