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Even if things that happened in our past cause us to make poor choices today, it's got to be our choice, and not someone else's. It would be far too easy for someone to deem us incapable of making a good choice because we did something they disapproved of. For instance, say I was molested, and when I grow up, I become a Goth. There are some who would say my abuse led me to becoming a Goth, and that someone should step in and prevent me from practicing that behavior. But, whether it's a good choice for me or not, I say, I have the right to decide for myself.

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I strongly agree!!! Though I've been trying to stay out of the debate...

Sidony