This is interesting. I almost wish I weren't on my way out! (I say "almost" because I'm on my way to therapy, and I really need it today!)

I'm thinking about the training-bodies-to-respond-to-particular-themes idea. I actually don't think that's a real risk. I think S&M (or D&S) tendencies are not caused by watching porn. And if you don't have tendencies in that direction, you're not going to gain them by watching. Like, for me, I have no tendencies towards same-sex interest, and no amount of watching same-sex porn would do anything to change that. I do have domination/submission tendencies, but they were not caused by pornography (though I do enjoy reading porn on those topics). I think the porn is not designed to create specific interests but to allow those who have such interests to enjoy sexual arousal from them.

I want to write more but gotta go see T...

Sidony