I just sighed a bit reading what you two have written. He is 28 and I am 26, actually I should be the "wild" one!
It is really so hard to find out what a relationship needs and what not! I keep thinking that it would be nice to live a little more, travel, meet new people and have fun, but something is holding me back.
It is a strange thing about BF and me, that he did not chose a girl from his own "scene". He sometimes talks about marrying me in the future (shriek), so I guess that he has some imagination of settling down, but I just don't know how all these pieces of the puzzle fit together.
I read somewhere that there is no use in wanting to solve riddles with your mind, but I don't want to do anything before I have clarity, or at least before my guts tell me what to do.
Divine1966, how long have you been married? And what do you think makes your relationship with your new partner work?