Patagonia, I must confess I am a Dom in Sub/Dom relationship with someone. I am also very in tune with her, I listen to her and she listens to me; not just when I need something but when I need to talk. When we met I wanted us to be transparent with each other. By the way BRAVO on going organic, I want to do that myself, so hit me up with suggestions sometime, I take an anti-depressant and anxiety med only for my psyche issues plus a few things for medical reasons and I can't stand relying on medication; and worry about the effects on my body, we aren't made to take man made chemicals. Also don't feel like it is a step backward if you need to go to a therapist. My second longest relationship was with my former therapist, her and I worked through a lot of issues together. Hang in there.