Nada, To be honest, lose him, if he needs to get his jollies online or with others and says he is bored with doing it with just one person; he is definitely a player. I have been in three good sexual relationships as an adult, two were marriages, they all started off hot and heavy and then the pace slowed. But once a month not in a million years, come on, us guys want physical contact just like any woman does. Any man who says other wise is just looking for the shallow, "wham, bam, thank you Mame". So find someone who will treat you right, you deserve better and I hope that you find it.