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Originally Posted by littleowl2006
I just sighed a bit reading what you two have written. He is 28 and I am 26, actually I should be the "wild" one! 
It is really so hard to find out what a relationship needs and what not! I keep thinking that it would be nice to live a little more, travel, meet new people and have fun, but something is holding me back.
It is a strange thing about BF and me, that he did not chose a girl from his own "scene". He sometimes talks about marrying me in the future (shriek), so I guess that he has some imagination of settling down, but I just don't know how all these pieces of the puzzle fit together.
I read somewhere that there is no use in wanting to solve riddles with your mind, but I don't want to do anything before I have clarity, or at least before my guts tell me what to do.
Divine1966, how long have you been married? And what do you think makes your relationship with your new partner work? |
I have not been married long, we got divorced when our daughter was still young. I had other relationships of course one was longer than my marriage ( almost 9
Years). They were all unavailable emotionally one way or the other. One had drinking problem
My current relationship is very new so I not sure about the future but he is very much emotionally available. He does have hobbies and so do I. Both of our hobbies are the kinds that don't take us too far away and actually mostly done sitting at home or if we do it with other people it might be just few hours here and there. But we both work a lot and don't live close by so we try to spend time with each other when we are both off which isn't often.
Now I absolutely don't believe people need to be attached to the hip or have same hobbies. People need to have separate friends and hobbies. But I believe it has to be something beneficial for a relationship
Btw you are about my daughters age.
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