Hi...

It`s not a gay issue, I have looked into that, that is why I have come up with Transvestic Fetishism, the last word of that title is pleasing to my husband and thinks that what he thought it was anyway, is just a fetish.... I have my doubts because we are all human and have fetishes of one kind or another, but to take my old underware from the bin for sexual gratefication is surely another thing... As each new day opens I am hoping that he will say something about this situation, but I am affraid. He really has not asked me how I am feeling and each day I am beginning to feel different, angry, cheated, sad, sorry for him, etc etc;, I dont know ... I have needs too... I thank you all for your comments and support. Feel this is going to be a long drawn out issue.