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Originally Posted by rcat
Yes, I think it IS possible. I have a male friend who is bipolar in addition to myself. Being hypomanic makes us high energy and a hell of a lot of fun to be around. It is the depression that makes it harder to be around a bipolar person. Don't forget most of the time though you are in the middle ground not one way or the other. I think it could be said that a bipolar person can be considered attractive as a date. But your prospective partner needs to know early on - and they need to know what they can expect when you are at your highs or lows. They also need to know your expectations of what support for you will look like.
Again, in answer to your question, YES it is possible. I encourage you to give it a try and wish you good luck.
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I forgot to add (in my rather long winded previous response) that it is possible! I have had several bfs with varying degrees of mental illness (ADHD, Depression, Bipolar, NPD, etc...) in the past. Some were diagnosed and some weren't. Obviously, the one's who were aware of their illness and in treatment, were much easier to deal with and lasted quite some time They were much healthier relationships too. The ones that weren't treated, needless to say, didn't last as long and were emotionally draining. I don't personally have a problem with dating someone who is bipolar (in fact, I'm drawn to such men), just as long as it is being managed and he is not in denial. I obviously have a more open mind about this, since I suffer from ADHD, GAD, Panic Disorder, Depression (possibly bipolar II. I also think a part of me is attracted to some of the chaos that accompanies such illnesses, since it stimulates my dopamine receptors. I've also known many neurotypical women, who have been in relationships with men, who suffered from the disorders that you have mentioned. I think the key is open and honest communication. Not to mention, the NT partner taking a proactive stance by making sure she educates herself about the illness.. It may be a bit more difficult for you to find an accepting partner, but it is far from impossible.
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