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Originally Posted by littleowl2006
You triggered something there. I often feel that he is emotionally unavailable, and that is painful. I am rather sensitive and there is a harshness about him which mixes with the hard techno scene that drives me away emotionally. I feel like I need to protect myself from something. There IS a discomfort. Admitting this makes me so sad. I am all by myself otherwise and my mother lives 600 km away. Maybe being alone again scares me.
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When I was with unavailable men one after another I told my therapist that I don't believe emotionally open men exist. She said they do. And I will meet one when I explore the reason why I attract wrong men. Sure enough I am with a guy now who has no harshness about him.
I strongly recommend therapy for you to get to the bottom of it
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