I hope you have better luck with the new psychologist!

I was reading your posts and it made me think about how any therapist probably has a hard time working with people who walk in with the notion that therapy won't work, or with so limited a capacity to allow other people to make mistakes that any error will be fatal to the relationship.

I'm not saying you shouldn't have moved on, it's always your choice to move on as you please, and to pick a therapist who suits you.

All I'm saying is that if you're waiting for people to fail, you will never be disappointed. It's just a matter of working out how much failure you can tolerate, and how much you should tolerate, which is personal to you.

Hopefully you can find a therapist you like enough to forgive the inevitable mis-steps. (And one whose mis-steps are not serious or harmful to you.)