I met this friend online 10 yrs ago. my granddaughter had been gone not quite a yr. this woman described the dress we buried her in to a T. no way could she have ever known that. Then when I was driving my truck I would keep smelling a familiar smell. I called her and told her about this smell. she again described my late husband's clothes. today I was chatting with her showing her something and she began to tell me she saw my granddaughter being held by a man and said either his name was J or had a J in the name. That is what we called my late husband. whew! I asked her if he had a message for me and he showed her light. He called my granddaughter "lightening" I think she is pretty amazing.