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Originally Posted by rcat
Gosh, that he had a crush on you adds a whole new dimension to this. I am one of the ones that is uncomfortable with the whole male relationship thing to begin with. Now the alarm bells are really going off.
Remember my litmus test: if the whole thing was reversed, how would you feel?
I just want to point something else out. If you are thinking this might be wrong that tells me then it is wrong.
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Yes, I agree. I think I need to work on being more empathetic, and acting/treating him in a more mature and devoted way- esp now that I am getting treatment, and sort of learning things all over again. Something as seemingly simple as this has thrown me for a loop.
And your last comment reminds me of what my grandmother always used to say: When in doubt, go with OUT
So much easier said then done...