Friends are ok and it is doable but there is a bit of a danger of emotional affair. I would be uncomfortable if I had issues or a fight with BF and he ran to his female friend and said lets two of us go out to dinner and I'll tell you about my and divine relationship. Yeah. Don't know about that

Also how much emotional energy and time do people really have? I work two jobs a lot of hours and i have hobbies and I have group of girlfriends have family members and have a BF. If on top of it I have to find time to go out with male friends? heck who has the energy or time? I do keep in touch with few male friends and my BF keeps in touch with few females, but we don't have time to socialize with them. We barely have time for each other

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