I'm in therapy (again) due to a deteriorating work situation. It's bad here and getting worse. I am looking for another job, and I have some nibbles. I'm a finalist for two situations that I think would be better than my current one.

The problem? I feel disloyal and feel that my "appointments" for interviews are transparent and I'm dealing with a huge amount of stress and guilt. I feel as though I am sneaking around....being totally two-faced.

Pretending I am really "into" my current job when speaking with my new boss (who cannot save this place) while saying that I'm ready to move when speaking to prospective employers. I have one foot in one world; the other foot out the door. The stress is crazy-making.

Any hints on how I can cope short-term?