Oh, ouch. My sense is that your therapist feels inadequate to help you and found a way to couch this as something you want rather than find a way to help you through this, or at least sit with you through this. It's particularly painful for me to read because I've been in a place like this for a few weeks now and was afraid my therapist would do the same thing, but she did not. Not even close. As hurtful as this is, your therapist made a hole where a much better therapist can be.