Ok, so I made a topic earlier about the two bakers that can be negative and I think it wears onto me because then I make assumptions when they complain so much.
I thought one of the bakers had complained about the buttercream earlier today so I said something to her before I left. She text me back say "Hey did you think I complained earlier about the buttercream. I said yeah, I thought you said something. She then text me that I think you need to stop assuming people are say **** all the time around there. Then I said Yeah, I agree that it's not good to assume. Like earlier I think I was hearing things. ha. But when was I thinking this all the time?
I guess after a situation where I spoke up about them saying things about me behind my back with the boss, they said stuff to the other workers too though. So now they assume I think that all the time. But I do not, it's I know they complain a lot though.
But I did send an apology for that assumption. Nothing back to either message.
I'm not sure what to do about this situation now because she probably had told others there at the bakery. I'm sure she would of said something to the other baker and probably the lady I thought say may had said something to.
I was thinking when I see her tomorrow apologize to her face in front of the other baker and then ask the decorator who I thought she complained to about the situation I misunderstood.
Opinions would help.