Have you looked into local " meet ups " in your area? Most are groups of people that have similar interests. Book clubs, Volunteering is a good way to get out and meet people, maybe you wont meet the "One" but friendships are also wonderful. You never know who friend A or B might know that could be the "right one" for you .

There is a difference between wanting and needing a relationship.. Are you okay about yourself and want to enjoy life with someone, or do you think you need someone to have a life? Just something to think about.
Good luck