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Old Sep 03, 2015, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
I did like the apology approach, that you mentioned, at first, also.

I have worked with all kinds of personalities, in my kitchen years. In a way, it's a field that holds room to have a bit of tension, at times, and there's room for those that complain, as well. After all, it's not really an easy replacement industry. Not when you factor in what it takes to get someone who is wet behind the ears trained.
Not being walked on nor discounted matters. Hope it resolves itself, for you.

Have you noticed peak times of the year, when it's more tense than others? Planning around that, can help brace for the next .
Yes, I was thinking that would help release tension. Though... tomorrow is actually this bakers last day.

I do still feel that she twisted it around to make it sound as though I misheard. Does an apology cure something that was true too because I did hear her complain about the buttercream to the other baker, not the situation? Why I'm not certain is because I do have a hearing disorder that can help me mishear quite often.

Would it be weird to ask the baker what she actually heard me say too, or would there be more spread? Because I think we both are confused considering that is where conflict is started. lol

I had not gotten sleep the other night so I feel even more clouded with this dilemma added.

Also it is busier during summer time there at the bakery, more parties and weddings.
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