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Old Sep 04, 2015, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted by WrkNPrgress View Post

I know I often get sucked into the idea that my T shows up late, or early, or wears that shirt just for ME... but that's not totally realistic. It's just some part of me that wants to believe that I'm special and have influence in her daily life. It's okay to feel that need that but when it starts to feed that self-laothing narrative I have to check myself.
Yeah the special shirt is a big one for me too. Turns out he was wearing it for a child client who liked it. So i decided i could share another time it was because of plans he had for the evening. I just free associate what the shirt reminds me of whatever. Thats that the t is there for. :
Thanks for this!
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