Thanks, yes I've thought about that many times. I think whatever the root cause is, they need to be seperate individuals. They are just together too much for siblings. There's been comparison and judgement of one against the other by some family members on both sides...their dad & my family. I'm just at the end of my rope and can only help them so much. I cannot tell my daughter that is so angry to go talk to somebody because she's afraid her sister will rat her out. It's just too much some days...

But thanks and let me know if you think of something I might be missing.