Yesterday marked the 15th month of taking care of my mom at night.She will be 93 soon,has macular degeneration,diabetes & arthritis.Her mind is sharp,still likes to shop if she is able to get out.I am thankful that she is as well as she is for her age.I will be 68 in a few days myself & taking care of 2 households is wearing me down,I get 2 nights a month at home.Have been away so long my place has become a mess.There is just so much to do & I just dont have the energy to get stuff done.Just need someone to talk to.