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Originally Posted by rcat
I'm interested to know if you feel that your sister or another family member are the primary source of this bullying? Do you think perhaps the other family members are tagging along or encouraged - even pressed - into treating you terribly too by this person. Is there one person who isn't influenced by the primary bully?
Just trying to understand your situaion. Thus far it sounds familiar.
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Hi rcat
I've been bullied my whole life but my mother is the main bully. After a lot of research I believe she is a covert narcissist. This means she appears caring, humble and friendly but behind close doors she is manipulative, controlling and enjoys splitting her children to turn against each other. She never once had admitted to mistakes. She never praises or validates me and overall I feel ignored. Everybody seems to follow her lead causing some to stop talking to me. Everybody believes her story and she is revered. She also I think displays a victim mentality that if someone upsets her she looks for sympathy from others. The question is what have I done to be ostracised? Am I really that bad? I've seen documentaries where even convicted murderers and rapists still get family visitations in jail and maintain contact. Surely I'm better than them.