Hello... It has been openly discussed and admitted by my husband... He has told me that he loves me, wants to make love to me etc., But his desire to want to wear ladies stockings and shoes is also something that he does not want to stop and it seems to be quite a private safe world for him to be in. He wants to go on to buy more clothing, which I have said, that, I will not stop him doing so. I do not want to make him anymore unhappy than he already clearly is. But he did suggest that if I felt it repulsive or weird, whatever word you like to us, then he would try and stop.. Thats pressure on me, I already feel guilty because we have not had sex in many months and wonder if it is me that has pushed him to this, but at the same time I dont want to carry on the rest on my life feeling responsible.... See, there I go again... Thanks for your comments.