I wanted to add that I do have an attorney and have had one since August of last year. I know he will do all that is necessary to make sure he lives up to his responsiblities to the boys and me.
Counseling usually only lasted 2 or 3 sessions with him then he would bail. Sad, but true!
He will learn as I did the hard way and wish he would have listened. I can't live in the past nor will I, because I am moving forward, a work in progress!