shane
this has nothing to do with you. you need to realize that. your assessment of being happy and everything going well is probably just that. women in abusive relationships have a difficult time leaving them. they return over and over again. this is about her. she decided to go back to her ex. it had nothing to do with her relationship with you, anything you did or didnt do, you were just a casualty in her relationship with her ex. she had to dump you to go back and continue her dance with him. she couldnt very well say to you "things were great, so i am dumping you" so of course she is going to say that things werent working out. it wasnt anything about you. it was about the connection she has with her ex and not being able to let go of that relationship. it doesnt matter how great it was with you. you could have given her the moon, but women in these type of relationships go back time after time. it is challenging to understand but it is a fact. i understand you are hurt as this meant something to you, but she still is attached to too much baggage from the past to be engaged with you. know you didnt do anything wrong, you couldnt have done anything different. this was entirely her doing and her choice.

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