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Originally Posted by vjdragonfly
I don't honestly want it to be over, I just want him to get some help and I feel like I am enabling him by being here. He was violent this morning, broken glass everywhere, tv demolished. I know what I need to do, I just can't bring myself to do it. My heart is breaking.
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Your safety is your priority. Tell him you will be leaving for a period of 30 days. During that time he is to find a thrapist and begin counseling. At the end of the 30 days you will meet in a public place to find out if he has been going to therapy and in a better state of mind.
You need to draw a line. If he is violent, call the police. This has crossed the line of being suppotive to a husband who is struggling with something and putting yourself in danger. If he is mentally ill, you are not qualified or equipped to deal with it anyway.