Girl, been there and done that! There is a mostly online support group that has online meetings. It's called Smart Recovery, then there is Women in Sobriety, Life Ring, etc. There are other options. My AA group was awesome because they had Women only meetings as well as mixed meetings. My Sponsor also was well respected in the group and she would take them aside and talk with their sponsor to get them in line.

As I mentioned there is a new app for your phone called Sober Grid and you can be anonymous there. There are AA people but other people as well. Plus, you can block people if you need to!

There are options.