I share your frustration. My mom told me I was never abused...well, I guess that's years of wasted psychotherapy. My mother-in-law told me that 'mental patients' are just lazy and looking a reason to not work (she, the abusive parent herself). Fortunately her more enlightened daughter does not share her convictions.

All I know is how many people need mental health care. Or maybe we've just become intolerably lazy?