i have this friend whom i really like, we know eachother for around 4 years. i've been showing my feelings already from the start which turned out to be incredibly obsessive at the end. (it probs scared him off) BUT, here's the thing: 1. he is still talking to me, even tho we had alot of argues, (sometimes he blocked even blocked me and we took a break for a year or so), 2. he spends alot of time on me, considering that it's a long-distance friendship. 3. he remembered some details from our first meeting. 4. he always tries to cheer me up. 5. when i told him the first time, on our first meeting, he said "i don't know". still, he kept me close, and altho i was very clingy, he found it all okay. next time, 2 years later when we hadnt talked, i told him i loved him, still he said "ohh, um, idk.", which i make up from, that he; 1. is scared of a relationship. 2. doesnt want to reject me.
i know him very well, i know that he has troubles with facing things head-on. like, for example if he wants to defend someone, he REALLY wishes he could, but hes too scared. still, it's a really sharp guy, if he wants to say something, he says it. so he could reject me right away.
what do you guys think? is there a chance of him liking me?
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