I met someone with bipolar disorder and borderline...I really like her and she likes me as well, but its very hard to find out how to get closer, or how to handle her fluctuation. She's important to me, but sometimes she totally refuse me even if i just try to help, or want to speak something important. She has also have drug problems. I want to make her life better. I need some advice...please help me if you have experiences or any ideas. Thank you

I tried so far to dissuade her about drugs, but it's just made her angry, and our evening ended immediatley.
I'm trying to lead her back to her original profession, sometimes she accept my words, but mostly she grow sad.
I always highlight her good attributes, mostly she says: "Don't woo to me...i can't handle it"