You can't save someone who doesn't want salvation.


I have bipolar and bpd too, and I made it clear to my bf that he can't fix me and shouldn't try, because I'm not broken.


I'm wired differently and it was up to ME to discover how to navigate life successfully.


I honestly don't think you should be pursuing anyone with a drug problem, that's just looking for trouble.


But maybe I'm just jaded because I dated an addict, then again, my bf has a history of drug abuse but it's never posed a problem because he cleaned up his act long before we got together.


Idk, just seems like you want to play the white knight, and that hardly, if ever works out well. Especially not when the damsel is the cause of her own distress.