Hi, T...
I know what you mean...I am baffled totally when men want to engage me in conversation. I have never known how to flirt, and wouldn't recognize if a man was in fact flirting with me, but have encountered men lately who seem to want to talk to me??? Plus!, in my case I no longer have the energy or desire to put forth the effort to date or get to know someone, and I feel one must really want to do this in order to invite further attention and follow thru. Do you want to do this? If so, go for it!
Patty