No lasagna crew here, either. Going through life without a lasagna crew is rough! All I can say is that you are not alone; I can definitely relate to what it feels like to see everyone around you getting lasagnas when they struggle, and then never getting a lasagna yourself, when you are struggling! Honestly, I can't even imagine how good it must feel to see that someone cares about you enough to bring you a lasagna!

While I don't know any of the specifics of your situation (just that it sounds rough!), when I broke up with my domestic partner, I tried calling all of my friends, family members, etc, trying to get some support. Not one of them came to see me, took the time to talk to me on the phone, etc. Just lots and lots of "oh, I'm sorry to hear that, anyway, I have to go" or even "oh, really? well, that's probably for the best." In stark contrast, when my sister broke up with her boyfriend (who she was not married/partnered with, and who she had dated for a shorter amount of time), my sister had the biggest lasagna crew I have ever seen! Even our dad was doing that kind of stuff for her when, a year earlier, he had done NOTHING for me. That was ROUGH! My sister hadn't even been there for me during my break up, and yet she expected me to be there for hers. And when mutual friends have gone through break ups since then, my sister definitely did not bring them lasagna! So why did everyone show up for my sister? Why do some people get lasagna crews and others don't? I couldn't tell you. All I can say is that you DESERVE a lasagna crew and, if there was a button on here for a lasagna emoji, I would be sending you one right now!