It sounds like things are progressing nicely and at a comfortable pace for both of you. I do not think it is weird that you have not kissed yet or been more physical. If you want to kiss him, I think it's perfectly alright to ask him.
I'm dating someone new right now-- it's been about 6 weeks-- and we have made out but we have not had sex yet. There have been moments when I've felt as though maybe we are moving "slowly" or doubted whether she is attracted to me because I know that most of my friends move faster. However, she tells me regularly that she is attracted to me and is really excited about where we're headed. And so am I! We're just not the kind of people who move super fast. And, actually, I think that's a good thing! I actually like how well I am getting to know her because of how much we TALK and how well she treats me. I know that she is interested in ME and not just SOMEONE who she can be physical with. I am probably at the point where I'll be ready to take the next step soon, and I think she is too. But I will definitely communicate with her about that to make sure we are on the same page, and we are both comfortable before we take that step. So many of my friends move quickly, end up arguing quickly, and break up quickly. I don't want that for myself. I want to take the time to get know my new girlfriend and really make sure I see a future with her before I take those next steps. And I think she wants the same. Her last relationship ended badly, and she wants to take things slowly with me to make sure that she doesn't end up in the same place again.
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