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Old Sep 06, 2015, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted by ValentinaVVV View Post
What I mean by that, is that people sometimes are different in the beginning. We are all on our best behavior.

I have had several men that "love bombed" me and idealized and then devalued me later.

Kind of a borderline thing I believe.
Then wouldn't logic determine that you were the loveable one?

There's statements within this thread speaking to feeling unloveable by the not having even experienced "to love and to have lost."