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Originally Posted by Secretum
Could his personality be why he has never initiated anything physical? He is afraid of harassing me or making me feel uncomfortable, so I always have to make the first move?
He has never given me any verbal signs of affection either-no compliments or anything.
Should I ask him on our next date how fast he wants this relationship to move? In case he wants more too, but is afraid that I don't? Would it be acceptable to ask him to kiss me? I know it would be awkward...
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To answer your questions, yes, yes and yes.
I do question why it's not official, yet, between the two of you. Taking things slow, is a positive thing, at the same time, knowing there's chemistry is rather important. And if you aren't good at reading subtle body language cues, such as does he follow you with his eyes. Then by all means address the issue.