I know this man (he is not my friend but a relative of mine whom I don't like at all) and he is very "sociable" and all people basically like him, men and women. But I know that he is faking all of his intentions because he told me that once. He said that I make people like me by saying some compliments and then they will go after me while I will pretend to be not caring to keep them after me, and this will keep me at the tongues and minds of people. For example, one thing he does all the time if you meet him in the street he would say: "I was going to call/visit you" which makes people delightful. But he doesn't call/visit them most of the time, unless may be if he is embarrassed and near to be caught by saying that repeatedly without actually doing it.

I think this man in particular is a real hypocrite and he makes me want to vomit. But the fact that people like him makes me even more sick. Is this the reality of social life: people want to hear what they want to hear even if it is fake and not intended for them to accept you and be part of this game called life? I wonder.