Tough one...my ex suffers from ADD, OCD, and an eating disorder...I wasn't properly treated recent dx is BP & BPD.

The problem we had as the gap widened in our relationship is that we pushed each other buttons and had no idea on how to support the other.

When I was in the hospital...I saw some where one or both had some issues...The understanding and compassion I saw in some of them was amazing.

I think the biggest issue is each of you have a bad day...in my case we have 3 children...how does one deal with it?

I wouldn't rule it out...carefully planned you never know...